At first i would get him to use his fingers and get you relaxed.. My poor hubby had been waiting so long. My OB is having me come back in 2weeks to look at me under the microscope since I had some 'abnormal bacteria' when my pap test came back the other day. It felt very tight and that I was going to rip open where the tear was. My physical therapist specializes in these issues so you have to find one who knows about it.
It really shouldn't hurt that bad at 9 weeks. Though after my bleeding started again, bright red, and hasn't stopped yet. Well, that was crap because months later it wasn't any better. It's just not worth it and much more enjoyable. I felt like I was being ripped in half and we had to stop before it even started. It was painful at first, but got better. It takes a good min. Any other ladies having this problem? Maybe it's lack of sleep, that in bed, it tells my body to either sleep, and when my boobs are played with it tells my body it's time to feed baby. I went to 3 different doctors. I began to bleed bright red blood afterwards, though not too much, and the pain stopped after about minutes. January 24 I also had a third degree tear, we waited until 8 weeks pp, and it was not great. Let me just tell you, it was not a very gentle, careful exam. It is very frustrating at times. I agree with Kristina it did hurt at first, but that was the worst one. SO I guess what I'm saying is that I strongly suggest you talk to your doctor about going to therapy. Ouch, so we finished by hand. My doctor assured me that everything is healed up nicely- please tell me this is normal! I'm thinking I may have a minor yeast infection. She also gave me these things that looked like different sized dildos to help as well. At my 6 week post partum appointment I told her that it hurt like crazy. As a matter of fact it was well after my son's first birthday before I got the help I needed. It hurt so bad. We still haven't resumed activity. One was going to do surgery again. January 24 Wow, Jen, it's almost my same story.
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